Monday, October 20, 2014

Halloween Spook-Tacular!


This past weekend was my new ward's Halloween Spook-tacular! I love when my church throws a shin dig. It's super family friendly and just plain fun. I am grateful that while Mr. Sailor is away I have little mini countdowns. Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas etc etc. It is definitely making time seem faster.


I knew little miss was going to be a mermaid. So to find out that she could wear her costume an extra night I was thrilled. Last year we went to a party on the ship and little miss was bundled up due to the cold winds you could barely see her cute cow costume. So I was super excited to have her dress up this year, though it would be a fairly simple costume.


The party was a hit with little miss! We indulged in hot chili and hot dogs, candy, bounce house (Though she would only walk up to it, run away and then come back) and fun carnival games! They even had a cute Photo Booth set up! It was a blast! I loved seeing all the little munchkins running around throwing sponges at the bishop's face and giggling with joy that they got em'!





Little miss ran back and forth across the parking lot and picking out all the suckers she could from the buckets. Grandpa even played a few of the harder games to earn her a few pieces of candy! Over all I think it was a massive success and I was so happy we were able to attend!  I feel like I am going to make a lot of good friends in this ward which I am so very grateful for!  I can't wait to see what she will do during her first time trick or treating! Ahh the pleasure's of being a mamma! I wouldn't trade it for the world!Any fun parties you guys have planned? I would love to hear about them!


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Friday, October 17, 2014

My favorite Qoute

As many of you know my husband is on deployment. Did we sign up for this? Yes we did. Were we aware this would eventually happen. Yup. But does it make it easy... absolutely not. The day I said "see you later" to my best friend was also the day I started out on my trek with my best friend and baby girl to literally the other side of the country. Double Whammy in one day.

Though the trek has been made easier by small blessings through family and friends and their actions; somedays are just tough. I have cried to my mother. I have cried silently when my baby is asleep and sometimes I cry when I hold her in my arms. I try to be as put together as possible, but my best friend is not here to help me. He sends me words of encouragement and I know we both keep each other in our prayers, but sometimes you just need them here physically.

This move and deployment could go two ways, I decided. One: The I'm so mad at the world and my heart is filled with bitterness and sadness all day long 24/7. Or Two: I could just take it day by day and look for the small successes.  Though it may seem like the easy choice to pick number two, in all honesty I really did have to think about it. Until I saw this quote, which has now become my favorite.

{To read where this quote came from. Click here}
This quote derives from this talk given at the LDS General Conference in April of this year. It was exactly what I needed to do. I needed to choose to be grateful for all that we have been blessed with. Do I love that my husband is not with me for the next while, ABSOLUTELY NOT, but choosing to be grateful has made it more bearable and has allowed the days to pass just a little faster.

 I have chosen to be grateful that My husband is safe. I am grateful he is stationed on his particular ship with men I know he trust's his life with. I am grateful that we traveled 3,000 miles with not one major hiccup. I am grateful that my mom and dad have opened up their home putting time and effort to build us our own space in the garage. I am grateful for the constant words of encouragement from my family and friends. I am grateful that I have my healthy baby girl to shine her bright light when my days seem cloudy and dark. I am grateful to be married to my best friend and know that when he comes home, he comes home to me! 

Focusing on the good through out my day has helped take the edge of this deployment. I am expecting that there are some days where Ben & Jerry will be my best friend and I will hash it out with them as the notebook plays in the background. But for right now my family is safe even though we are apart and I am surrounded by people who love us. This quote has gotten me through a lot these last two months and I am sure in the near future it will help even more!

{This is what I imagine him coming home will feel like!}

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Wednesday, October 15, 2014

My BFF Haley Smith

Right when I graduated I met my best friend Haley. She was my manager at Pier 49 Pizza, one of my favorite places to work might I add. I honestly thought she hated me. We worked together but a full on conversation was never struck. Until  about a month before she left for BYU Hawaii. We both discovered our love of song writing and just music in general. Though we TRULY bonded the night before she hopped on a plane due to manager's poor lack in judgement. Anger can really bring people together!

Somehow  we stayed in contact with even an ocean between us and became best friends the year she moved back. Which eventually lead to roommates. (This next part is seriously just bragging about her. So if that's not your cup of tea skip ahead)

Haley is SUPER Talented! She has been playing the piano for what seems like forever, in fact Media Music is her major. I am in awe every time I hear her play. It gives me goose bumps. Being a great friend she even played at my wedding reception for free ;)  Recently she has really worked on her voice and by george I think she has got it! I am so proud of her and all that she has been able to put her mind too and accomplish! We have definitely grown but throughout these last 5 years we have been able to lean on each other no matter what.

So the reason for all this bragging? Haley has recently done her first music video of the cover of "Stay With Me" By Sam Smith. I teared up watching this guys. For one she is taking a huge step by putting herself out there and two her voice seriously warmed my soul. So I would like to post that video up here today. I am doing this to show her my support and spread the word about how talented my best friend is! I hope you enjoy!

Check out her FB here! 
Check out her Instagram here

Wasn't that amazing! Haley dear I am so proud of you and all that you have accomplished. I couldn't ask for a better friend. *end sappiness* 

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Flash Back: Breaking my leg

Let me just start off by saying. Mama KNOWS best. If your mother says,

 "My child... Please don't do this because this will happen." 

Don't walk off in your 19 year old strut and say. "I'm an ADULT. I will do it just because I can."

Let me tell you why. You are 19 and you don't know EVERYTHING. Even if you think you do. You don't. Trust me.

Know that we got that out of the way lets go back 4 years ago.

Back in 2010 I had driven down to St. George Utah to visit my family for the weekend. Living only three hours apart at the time and being single definitely made it convenient. My good friend from high school had a long board and had mentioned going sometime. I suggested it to my mom. More of a "I think I am going to do this" way, Then asking for permission way.

She looked stunned at first. Then looked me straight in the eye and said "Kirstie don't you get on a longboard. You're going to break a leg." Little background. I was super accident prone in high school.   (told you it was little)  I giggled and said mom I will be fine! Trust me I won't do anything stupid. As I walked out the door with my bags in my hand. She repeated her self again. "Don't you get on a long board.I meant it! " I half promised and headed on my merry way back up North.

A week later my friend from work and I were hanging out at my neighbors. We were both struggling because the conversation turned into asking everybody what they wanted to do , but nothing was being decided. So he leaned over and said "Hey I have two longboards in my trunk, do you want me to teach you how?" I instantly jumped at the chance. May I add; ignoring the pit in my stomach screaming at me to listen to my mother's words.

He taught me and within 10 minutes I got the hang of it. We weren't doing anything dangerous just going around my buildings parking lot. I felt like I was gliding. Seriously the most freeing feeling I had ever experience. Which I guess you could say was short lived because I went over a speed bump and it all ended there. I went to break and being goofy footed, I overstepped and the board went sky rocketing in front of me. Causing my left leg to smash against the asphalt. I didn't feel anything at first until my friend gave me a hand up. As soon as I allowed pressure on my leg. I fell back down in screaming pain.

Realizing it was something more severe, he ran back in to my neighbors yelling at them we needed to get to the hospital. After an "What did I say, not saying I told you so" phone call with my mother and three hours later I was being released from the hospital with a green split fracture to my fibula. I would be in a soft cast for a few days and then into a boot. (Later finding out that I should have been put into a hard cast) Which would last for 4-6 weeks.

To this day when the weather changes or a massive storm is coming my way, my leg starts to ache. Which is convenient and sometimes painful.ave And as the storm rolls in I always have a constant reminder which is musically acclaimed in "Tangled" "Mother know's best... Listen to your mumsy." So I admit it to my mother when ever the story arises that she was right and I was wrong (You're welcome mom ). I knew I should have listened but being the teenager living on my own I thought I knew what was best. So there you have it the Flash Back to when I broke my leg!

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Sunday, October 12, 2014

Deployment Bucket List

While Mr. Sailor is away I want to take the coming months by the horns and accomplish some short term goals while he is away. Though he is my life and thee love of my life, I need to work on myself as a mother, wife and my independent side.

I am hoping I can focus my attention on accomplishing these goals allowing myself to grow while he is away. I am 100% that this will will make time fly by and he will be in my arms once more. I designed and ordered a poster, so I may see it everyday to remind me of the things I want to accomplish! 

So here is my deployment bucket list :

Click here to see where/how I designed it. 
Click here to see what else I have designed 

What do you guys think? Any suggestions from those who have gone through deployments? I would love any feedback! 

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Wednesday, October 8, 2014

"Eye" see you monster cake!


One of my goals while Mr. Sailor is away is to work on my baking skills. My mother-in-law is a fantastic baker/decorator and some of her kids fondest memories is going back and remembering what type of cake and design she made them on their special day. I want to do the same thing for my kids. So what better time to work on it! 

In light of the halloween spirit I wanted to make something that made you "eep" in delight! Introducing my chocolate Pumpkin "eye" see you Monster cake! 

This design was actually super simple to execute, which makes it all the better. I got the design idea here but put my own little twist on it. The recipe I found I have made some major tweaks to it. The original recipe was worded oh so very confusing and the measurements were in decimals... who the heck wants to take time to convert decimals to fractions while baking? So I took the liberty of converting it for you and I didn't feel the need to post the original since it was oh so very confusing. 

Pumpkin Chocolate Cake
Bake time 30 min
Preheat Oven: 375 degrees
3 medium bowls

1 1/2 cups flour

2/3 cups cocoa

2 teaspoon's baking powder

1 teaspoon baking soda

1/2 teaspoon salt

1/2 cup buttermilk (if you don't have buttermilk take 1 cup milk
w/ 1 tablespoon lemon juice and let sit for 5 minutes)

1 can pumpkin 

2 teaspoons vanilla 

3/4 cups (1 1/2 sticks) butter

1 cup dark brown sugar

1 cup granulated sugar

3 large eggs 

1 yolk 


Preheat Oven to 375 degrees. Along with preparing two round cake pans. I prefer to Crisco them but whatever suits your fancy. As long as you prepare it so the cake doesn't stick :) 

You will need 3 medium bowls for this recipe. In your first bowl sift and mix together your flour, cocoa, baking powder, baking soda and salt in one bowl. Set aside. 

In your second bowl, beat together with a mixer on medium speed, your brown and granulated sugar with your sticks of butter. Mix together until light and fluffy. 

In your last bowl stir together your buttermilk, pumpkin and vanilla extract. I would do this one last if you had to whip up your own buttermilk so it allows the buttermilk to sit long enough :) 

Once you have all three prepared mixtures add the 3 eggs and 1 egg yolk to your sugar mixture with the mix speed on low. Once fully mixed begin adding your buttermilk mixture and flour mixture; doing so a third at a time. (1/3 buttermilk mix; allow to fully mix then add 1/3 flour mix. Repeat) 

Now that it is fully mixed together,  pour the batter into your pre greased pans! Allow to bake for 30 minutes then check. Depending on your oven it may need 5 more minutes! 

WA-LA! Now that your cake is done lets move onto the decor! Once you allowed your cakes to FULLY cool you may begin decorating. 

Ingredients for decor: 

Pillsbury Cream Cheese Frosting ( You can choose another of your liking) 

Neon Green Food Coloring

Regular Oreo's 

Mini Reese's Oreo's

Brown M&M's

Junior Mints

I frosted the cake just like I normally would and tried to get it as clean as I could with a butter knife. 

You will need just the cream side of the oreo's. When you pull them apart, do it oh so slow so you don't rip the cream. I kept the bare side and figured I Could use them for something else later. 

All you need to do is now decide where you want your eyes to set! Once you've decided, place a little bit of frosting on the back and gently push onto the cake to allow it to stick.  You will do this when placing your Oreo's and the center's for the eyes! You are now done! This cake was a hit with my family and I really loved how it turned out! HAPPY HALLOWEEN! May your tummies be satisfied. :) 

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Sunday, October 5, 2014

Our new best friend


We have been in California now for just a little under a week. We are currently still living out of suitcases for the moment and hopefully can move into our new bedroom by tonight or tomorrow. Fingers crossed! But one thing I have been able to add to our routine is the Park. The Park is our new best friend. My momma has one just right up the road from their humble abode. It is AWESOME.


We get there in the earlier hours of the morning, generally after schools are in session, which is fantastic ! Why? Because that means we are usually the only ones there. They have a nice big walking path surrounding the park, so my momma goes on a walk and I go play on the playground with my baby.


My Baby can officially now go down the slide by herself and is a master of climbing up and down stairs. She is definitely adventurous just like I was at her age. She is already climbing to the tippy top of the playground and sending her self down the biggest slides by her self! I am amazed at everything she is able to learn and retain! Once we are done playing our hearts out we enjoy a snack with some juice and head home for a well deserved nap. So Thank you park for allowing my baby some joy and giggles back into her life again. After this move this is exactly what she needed.

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